We all worry and get upset from time to time. It’s a normal part
of life, right? But what happens when that anxiety or stress
takes over, and you can’t calm down? Being able to calm
yourself in the moment is often easier said than done. Here are
some helpful, actionable tips you can try the next time you need
to calm down.
Breathe
Breathing is the number one and most effective
technique for reducing stress and anxiety quickly. Taking long,
deep calming breaths disrupts that loop and helps you calm
down.
Think it through
“Will this matter to me this time next week?”
or “How important is this?” or “Am I going to allow this
person/situation to steal my peace?”
Listen to music: Listening to music can have a very calming
effect on your body and mind.
Relax your body
When you’re anxious or stressed, it can feel
like every muscle in your body is tense. Practicing progressive
muscle relaxation can help you calm down and center yourself.
Write it down: If you’re too anxious to talk about it, grab a
journal and write out your thoughts.
Get some fresh air
The temperature and air circulation in a
room can increase your anxiety or stress.
Drop your shoulders: If your body is tense, there’s a good
chance your posture will suffer. Sit up tall, take a deep breath,
and drop your shoulders.
Identify pressure points to calm stress and anxiety
Going for a massage or getting acupuncture is a wonderful way to
manage anxiety and anger.